My bf is on dating sites
Your other options to confronting him is to just accept this truth, he isn’t as invested into you as you thought and downgrade him and stop being so available to him. Downgrade him and continue on with your Merry life!
Invest into yourself, take one of Katarina’s workshops like Leaning Back and Cultivating Feminine Mystique or get her book, He’s Really That Into You, He’s Just Not Ready!
There is a free online search tool at Social Searcher that will allow you to see all web mentions, news blogs, forums and comments including Twitter, Facebook, and Whats App.
However, this site might be just as good as using Google to find out information about him.
When you find your boyfriend is still on a dating site, you have two choices really.
You can confront him or you can downgrade him and pull back from the relationship.
At this point, you need to make a determination about what you are going to do about it and if this relationship can be repaired.
I don’t care what he tells you or what excuse he gives.
Unless he is a complete idiot, he is aware this would not make you happy.
This may also be a sign to you that you are a lot more invested into him than he is into you.
After all, you wouldn’t dream of still being on a dating site would you? Is he really your boyfriend or has your imagination carried you away in this relationship?
If you input his name into the Google search engine you should be able to see what social media belongs to on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.